HookMeUpII
AH elite
I work in finance and the discretionary spending is what gets most people. What's worse is discretionary debt, especially in this rate environment.
My close PH friend told me about a client couple who saved money for their safari by neutering their own cat rather than going to the vet. I’m told it involved a pillow case.

Spend less than we make.
All worthy points. But I thought this is a safari saving drill meant to be light at heart.A lot of times the difference between people who are doing okay & people who are struggling is as small as a single-digit percentage: For example, people who are struggling will consistently spend 103% of what they make & people who are doing okay spend 97% of what they make. That 3% difference in opposite directions changes everything. One is always growing balances on credit cards. The other is always growing a savings account. Compounded interest can either be a wonderful or a terrible thing depending on if you're receiving it or paying it.
Yes until this summer after moving into a new house build. It’s worth it to have it weekly maintained, edged, etc. by others but before that I did it for decades and wore out a few mowers along the way.Does anyone here mow their own lawn?
I’ve been vacillating about taking it back up myself, but my wife keeps reminding me that the brutal Texas summers probably aren’t worth it.
Well, you could just let it dry up and go dormant until you feel like getting out there...hard to do if you have worked to get it well established.Does anyone here mow their own lawn?
I’ve been vacillating about taking it back up myself, but my wife keeps reminding me that the brutal Texas summers probably aren’t worth it.
Once Africa gets in one's blood, most will do whatever it takes to go back!!! ;-)Not recommended and certainly not condoned, but I know a guy.
I probably don't have any profound insights or extraordinary advice to give to anyone. I'm definitely not some kind of enlightened financial paragon. But over the years, I have managed to settle into some patterns that have worked well for me personally.
1. Pay yourself first. Before you spend money on bills or other necessities, put some tax-deferred money away in the stock market for your retirement years (e.g. 401k, 457b, etc.). Compounded interest is a wonderful thing. It will hurt at first but if you make it a habit, eventually you won't miss it.
2. I'm too poor to buy cheap. Buy once, cry once. I always try to buy quality that will last me for years. Preferably for the rest of my life. I try to never squander money by overspending. It's a balancing act that takes a bit of research & intuition. A simple way of putting this is I always try to prioritize value for my money. Buying quality used cars, motorcycles, rifles, computers, smart phones, etc. has saved me a lot of money.
3. Pay for everything with a money-back credit card. Pay the balance in full each month. Roll the money-back credits into bill payments. Being debt-free is a wonderful thing if you can do it.
4. KISS...Keep It Simple Stupid. Don't let your physical possessions overwhelm you so much that it takes up all your time & money maintaining the stuff you've acquired. Learn to simplify & minimize whenever you can. Prioritize acquiring experiences over acquiring things.
5. Skimping to save money is a finite endeavor. Working to make extra money can be more rewarding. There is a limit to how frugal you can be so don't expend excessive time & effort trying to save a trivial amount. If you have a skill that can be monetized (I'm a computer programmer that did freelance work in addition to my regular job), focus on making larger sums of cash in a side hustle if that option is available to you. It's a better usage of your time.
6. Be kind & generous. Having good karma produces unexpected benefits.
And it's post like this that make surfing these forums worth the effort every day! Thanks for the laugh.![]()
Yes until this summer after moving into a new house build. It’s worth it to have it weekly maintained, edged, etc. by others but before that I did it for decades and wore out a few mowers along the way.
I live in a similar area, many of my old neigbours do their own yard, hell I had a Hispanic neighbour who was out in the yard in 100 plus deg with humidity. I use to wonder how can one do that, One day I ended up asking him, he said it does not matter, I grew up doing this, all I need a chilled beer after the job is done.At my old place we lived in a very nice, very established neighborhood with tall trees. It was just a half acre, but I was socially obligated by the area to ensure beds were mulched, trees were pruned, shrubs were replaced when they died, new trees were planted, etc. I hated doing the upkeep and even using a very reasonably priced landscaper, I figure I wasted on average $5000-$10000 per year on all the services required.
1.) Investing first is 100% a given. But if you have debt, you ought not to invest because you're saving at 10% and paying a CC at 30%. Kill all debt as fast as possible (other than mortgage) and then invest 15% into retirement and 15% into brokerage/assets. Nature abhors a vacuum and if these things aren't tended to first, lifestyle expands beyond what one can afford.