So very strange to me… I googled a couple of articles.. looks like it’s almost all white people (over 70%)… and that Quebec is the province where it happens at the highest rate..
Hard to wrap my head around honestly..
1 in 20 is pretty high.
Guess I'd be interested to see what percentage of 'all cause deaths' are from 'old age, terminal illness, etc'. Maybe 5% of people in that situation isn't that unreasonable a number?
That said, I'm not 100% against MAID on principle.
For example, my mother used to have a much older friend called Olive.
She used to take care of my brother and I when we were kids, she must have been in her 80's back then. She was fit and active, able to drive herself around, enjoyed her crochet club, did stuff with her church. Husband had passed, but she was happy.
I used to drop in on her when I returned from uni, and the decline was heartbreaking.
First, her vision started to go. Cataracts. She couldn't drive anymore, so became wholly reliant on friends and family to get her around, to do the groceries, to leave the house at all. People visited when they could, but I got the impression she was pretty lonely after that.
Then the physical capabilities started to fade. She tripped on the stairs, broke her hip and wrist. It became increasingly obvious she couldn't live alone anymore. She was persuaded (eventually) to sell the family house and move into a care home, but she clearly did not want to. She'd lived in that house for 60+ years when she eventually caved.
Then the memory started going. Dementia. I went to go visit her in the home, she didn't remember me. I'd spent countless days at her place all through childhood, and she remembered nothing. Not sure if that hurt her or me more to be honest.
Eventually she passed, 103 years old. I think it was a relief for her at that point, stuck in a care home with a load of people she couldn't remember, unable to do much of anything, not even able to get out of an armchair without assistance.
Obviously it's not something you ask, but given the opportunity, I think she'd have considered the MAID option when she was forced to sell the house. Pass with some dignity left. I'd feel the same, honestly. If not then, a few years after for sure. She clearly wasn't happy in the care home and was basically just existing, waiting to die. Not a life I'd want to live.
A difficult dilemma, but I must admit that experience made me see the potential utility, although a difficult one to manage for all parties involved.