Why am I so anal?

My wife, family, colleagues, and others sometimes see me transform into a brick wall of strict adherence to safety, rules, and above all, logic. Why, oh why they wonder and sometimes ask, "Mark, why are you so anal?"

Simple answer, here is the reason,

This is the Commandant of the Marine Corps General Smith explaining something to a crowd of Marines;

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For those who do not have good Internet bandwidth, General Smith explains,
“It is the rigid, ruthless adherence to discipline, and taking care of our people…”

This is the written quote from General Smith;
"Discipline is the silent architect of success. The Marine Corps 1/8-inch rule isn’t about fabric; it’s about forging a mindset. Precision in the smallest details builds the foundation for decisive action when stakes are highest. In business, in life, rigorous standards create unstoppable momentum. 272° means 272°, because in the moments that define your future, hesitation costs everything."

It is comforting to know that after almost 50 years, my Corps hasn't changed!

Mark,
I suffer the same criticism and completely understand. My standard response is "Why are you not?"

Never been a military man or served in any capacity.
Your question really asks - "Why do I believe things should be done perfectly?"
Why? Because it matters to you and those that depend on you. It is important and sometimes life saving.
I prefer to have an "anal" surgeon to one that is not.
I prefer to have an "anal" pilot flying my American Airlines plane.
I prefer to have an "anal" mechanic working on my daughters brakes.

It is a mindset. Many do not have it. Glad you do!

dogcat1 said:

Never been a military man or served in any capacity.
Your question really asks - "Why do I believe things should be done perfectly?"
Why? Because it matters to you and those that depend on you. It is important and sometimes life saving.
I prefer to have an "anal" surgeon to one that is not.
I prefer to have an "anal" pilot flying my American Airlines plane.
I prefer to have an "anal" mechanic working on my daughters brakes.

It is a mindset. Many do not have it. Glad you do!

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dogcat1 - I may have been that "anal" American Airlines pilot.

Imagine after the military if you then go on to be a mechanical engineer and go into upper leadership.

You are not alone Mark.

However I have adopted the term meticulous instead of anal as I've grown a little gray on the edges.
It's purely a slight of hand but people seem to view it as a positive and it commands a bit of gravitas and even mystique.

dogcat1 said:

Never been a military man or served in any capacity.
Your question really asks - "Why do I believe things should be done perfectly?"
Why? Because it matters to you and those that depend on you. It is important and sometimes life saving.
I prefer to have an "anal" surgeon to one that is not.
I prefer to have an "anal" pilot flying my American Airlines plane.
I prefer to have an "anal" mechanic working on my daughters brakes.

It is a mindset. Many do not have it. Glad you do!

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Well said. I concur. The fine details matter no matter what they pertain to big or small.

“Slow is smooth, Smooth is fast”

I am an ex-mil officer and work as a shift leader on an offshore oilrig. I am known as The Colonel..

There is a time and place for it.

Being wise is knowing when relationships are more important than rigidity.

I too was a Military officer, and am a Boss but sometimes not the best Father or Husband.

Don’t let it get in the way of peace and happiness or become too judgmental or critical of others who aren’t the same way.

Everyone has their own life to live

wildwilderness said:

There is a time and place for it.

Being wise is knowing when relationships are more important than rigidity.

I too was a Military officer, and am a Boss but sometimes not the best Father or Husband.

Don’t let it get in the way of peace and happiness or become too judgmental or critical of others who aren’t the same way.

Everyone has their own life to live

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well said. good to have balance and know when to have it.

Datchew said:

well said. good to have balance and know when to have it.

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It's that discipline instilled in you during military service. Attention to detail, doing it the right way the first time every time. You never forget. It becomes a part of you forever.

Once an officer always an officer.. German: Einmal offizier immer offizier..

Pondoro said:

I am an ex-mil officer and work as a shift leader on an offshore oilrig. I am known as The Colonel..

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Nice to know, there are some off shore men on the forum. I am OIM on drilling jack up rig.