Here’s to all the wives

Mine has accumulated a rather large collection of hunting guilt jewelry over the years.
@Red Leg
Mine comes in some trips with me and we make it a mix of hunting and stuff for her to do.

Other times I know it's time to go hunting because she starts suffering from g'out.
To put it in non medical terms she sees I'm getting moody or restless and starting to annoy her. It's time to go bush and hunt when she starts saying G'OUT.
G'OUT is the shortened version of get out.
Bob
 
I almost bought her a nice enameled cast iron frying pan, but that was 50 bucks more. I spent a $150.00 of my beer money on that sweeper and did without beer for a whole week and she didn't appreciate my sacrifice. Go figure. I ask you, is my wife Charlotte trying to tell me something ? :unsure:

Paul
@Paul K
It's obvious your wife doesn't like the finer things in life like a nice vacuum or flash skillet.
At least the vacuum wouldn't hurt as much as that cast iron frying pan if'n she hit you with it so you made a wise choice.

Maybe next time you could be a bit more romantic and take her to one of those fine Scottish restaurants (aka MacDonalds)for a fancy meal
Come on Paul I think you need to up your game and show her how much you appreciate her.
Bob
I almost bought her a nice enameled cast iron frying pan, but that was 50 bucks more. I spent a $150.00 of my beer money on that sweeper and did without beer for a whole week and she didn't appreciate my sacrifice. Go figure. I ask you, is my wife Charlotte trying to tell me something ? :unsure:

Paul
 
I have appreciated all of my wives.
@Tanks
I appreciate my first wife because she left.
My 2nd one was a real treasure, I just wanted to bury her. While I was away she thought foreplay was her and three others. So endeth that lesson

The current one I've been with 25 years and love her deeply and really appreciate her. Even when she gets G'OUT.
Bob
 
My bride did pick up a new necklace that could require a new Blaser R8 Professional 2.0 stock on my end. Not sure how the scales got tipped so far in her direction, but I assure you it won't be for long.
@BeeMaa
You are married mate
You have a workshop don't complain.
You work
She shops
That my friend in the circle of life
Bob
 
Gents,

It remains a mystery as to why my wife was attracted to me in the first place, not to mention after 33 years.
She still makes my heart beat fast and a day never passes without me telling her that I love her.
Even though I have known in the past some exceptional women, mine is the most interesting, conservative, charismatic and magnetic one I have ever met.
I would rather be alone again than to be with another woman.

Not only does she remain quite good looking now in her mid 60’s but, she is preparing to retire from her 2nd career, continuing with a locomotive work ethic to the very end.
Plus, she is compassionate toward good people who may be suffering from whatever torments them.
She cared for my mother during the several years that dementia eventually took her life at age 99.
She is the Osa Johnson of my life.

Cheers,
V. Dog.
@Velo Dog
I thought you were describing my wife and I there for a minute.
Nothing beats a goodnight kiss and I love you with a cuddle and the same to start the day with good morning I love you
Life is good with a fine wife.
Bob
 
My wonderful wife is the reason I’m getting to go on my first safari next year. When we were talking about finances last year for buying land and building a house, she told me we have the money now, and we will be paying off the house for decades anyway, just go ahead and do it. She’s the love of my life for many reasons, and this is the cherry on top. Another thing she likes is that I’ll be 28 when I go, and my oldest will be 3, so our kids will get to grow up hearing about Africa (and hopefully wanting to go themselves)
 
Bought my wife over the years some Burberry scarves and Hermes scarves, some citytrips with and without the kids and she lets me indulge in hunting.

Lately she knows that she can get more stuff, she is getting cheeky :P Detective: , doesn't stop talking about a Hermes bag....
@DieJager
Be greatful it isn't an antique limited edition Louis Vuitton bag mate. That would be more than an elephant hunt
Bob
 
Love my wife for all she has done for me and our family for the last 44 years. She indulges all of my hunting interests and trips as long as I don’t shoot cats or elephants! I can make that trade off. She is in a battle with early stage pancreatic cancer right now so the least I can do is be by her side with every ounce of support I can provide to keep her encouraged in this battle
@MontanaGrant
You have my prayers that all goes well.
You are a TRUE MAN being by her side without hesitation thru this time. It will be a battle that will try all your strength and faith and hopefully you both come safely out the other end.
Bob
 
My wonderful wife is the reason I’m getting to go on my first safari next year. When we were talking about finances last year for buying land and building a house, she told me we have the money now, and we will be paying off the house for decades anyway, just go ahead and do it. She’s the love of my life for many reasons, and this is the cherry on top. Another thing she likes is that I’ll be 28 when I go, and my oldest will be 3, so our kids will get to grow up hearing about Africa (and hopefully wanting to go themselves)
@NoStepOnSnek
Ah the vagaries of the young
28 was a long time ago for me. We were still calling Africa the dark continent when I was in school, Sri Lanka was still called Ceylon and it was east and west Pakistan. Dang I even remember when JFK was assisinated and man first walked on the moon.
Shit I must be getting old and I've only got 40years on you
Bob
 
My own relationship with my ex wife was miserable & volatile. But I developed a lifelong bond with an amazing woman who was my secretary from 1972 to 2005. I often regret not pursuing a romantic relationship with her when we were both young.

She was Catholic (being of mixed Portuguese & Bengali heritage) and I was a divorced Muslim guy with two kids. At that time, religious stigma in our part of the world was still a huge problem. I didn’t think her family would ever accept me. Similarly, she never thought that my kids or family could ever accept her. And she knew that my kids were my life.

Eventually, she married a nice accountant whom her dad arranged her to marry. After her marriage, I found out that my kids & parents actually really liked her and would have happily accepted her as part of the family. And obviously, we would never even think of asking her to convert to Islam or anything.

Years later, after we both became grandparents... She also told me that her family really liked me and would have happily accepted me into their midst.

We're still very close friends (and I'm quite friendly with her husband too) and we see each other at least once a week and speak on the phone every day. I'm at a good place with her.

But sometimes, I wonder what might have been if I had put a ring on that hand when we were both young.

She accompanied me on several of my foreign hunts over the years. After I became an MP (Member Of Parliament), I made her the headmistress of the University named after me.
 
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My own relationship with my ex wife was miserable & volatile. But I developed a lifelong bond with an amazing woman who was my secretary from 1972 to 2005. I often regret not pursuing a romantic relationship with her when we were both young.

She was Catholic (being of mixed Portuguese & Bengali heritage) and I was a divorced Muslim guy with two kids. At that time, religious stigma in our part of the world was still a huge problem. I didn’t think her family would ever accept me. Similarly, she never thought that my kids or family could ever accept her. And she knew that my kids were my life.

Eventually, she married a nice accountant whom her dad arranged her to marry. After her marriage, I found out that my kids & parents actually really liked her and would have happily accepted her as part of the family. And obviously, we would never even think of asking her to convert to Islam or anything.

Years later, after we both became grandparents... She also told me that her family really liked me and would have happily accepted me into their midst.

We're still very close friends (and I'm quite friendly with her husband too) and we see each other at least once a week and speak on the phone every day. I'm at a good place with her.

But sometimes, I wonder what might have been if I had put a ring on that hand when we were both young.

She accompanied me on several of my foreign hunts over the years. After I became an MP (Member Of Parliament), I made her the headmistress of the University named after me.
We have an old saying "You have to strike while the Iron is hot".
 
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Mine buys her own rifles and hunts with me. Nuff said. :love:
 
@Red Leg
Mine comes in some trips with me and we make it a mix of hunting and stuff for her to do.

Other times I know it's time to go hunting because she starts suffering from g'out.
To put it in non medical terms she sees I'm getting moody or restless and starting to annoy her. It's time to go bush and hunt when she starts saying G'OUT.
G'OUT is the shortened version of get out.
Bob
Now that’s funny!!! I buy guilt expensive purses versus jewelry (same expensive principle)
 
My wife is not a hunter but loves all our hunting dogs and enjoyed our first safari. It was important that my daughters grew up hunting and understand it and conservation.
 

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To add a more serious note to my earlier post. My wife typically goes with me on most of my hunts. Some of our fondest memories are out in the field. There is no one I’d rather hunt with or be with.

She grew up in far west Texas on a ranch with the Rio Grande visible out the back of the house. She shot rabbits every morning and evening for the ranch dogs to eat. Needless to say, years of shooting rabbits turned her into a highly proficient shooter. She is a better shot than I am, I just practice more these days. She would tag along with me to matches and participate sometimes.

If we want our partners and kids to enjoy shooting and hunting, give them guns and scopes at least as good as what we use ourselves. If we give them cheap equipment, they recognize it and what message does that send to them?

One of my great memories was when she won a precision shooting match. She won the match on the last shot beating a retired Marine Sergeant. He was pissed (at himself) to be beaten by a woman. :giggle:

Here is one of my favorite photos of her, a picture of her shooting her 15# rifle, custom built for her, offhand firing ten shots at the 200 yard line in a match long ago. (Two or three minute time limit). This photo makes me smile when hunters say they cannot shoot an 8# rifle offhand.

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When she finally decides to join you and has the adventure of her lifetime you get to enjoy a moment like this
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lol…are you guys running for political office? Sorry could not resist, my wife gets even with expensive purses and island trips but so nice to see some nice posts
 
Just 2 weeks ago my wife, Sue, asked me "when are we going hunting in Africa again?"
Married nearly 7 years, we are both 1957 babies and she has been a shooter and hunter for 4 years.
Sue never questions my hunting and is always keen to tag along with her beloved 308, as long as its not too cold!!
Sue and her first Deer, a Chital Stag in northern Queensland, Australia.
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