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I’m wondering what the inside scoop might be with regards to the breakdown of trade talks with Canada. Here in Canada, we only get what the Liberals want us to see and hear, online streaming act bullshit and Liberal controlled media. Carney hasn’t told the truth since he was parachuted in power.
 
I’m wondering what the inside scoop might be with regards to the breakdown of trade talks with Canada. Here in Canada, we only get what the Liberals want us to see and hear, online streaming act bullshit and Liberal controlled media. Carney hasn’t told the truth since he was parachuted in power.

Who knows if it’s the truth or not but at least it’s straight from one of the guys directly involved.
 
I guess it depends upon your definition of choice. I suppose they could not work so much, but then again, the impending homelessness, starvation, and financial ruin doesn't feel like much of choice now does it? You don't see some level of coercion in that at all?

I don't know any couples my age that are financially successful on one salary alone other than where one spouse is a doctor.
Two of my kids are and in their 30s with three kids each who are six years old and younger. They work for your supposed greedy corporations. Funny thing is, they are paid very well so maybe the corporations are as greedy as you believe.
 
First of all, welcome new member. As you haven't seen my older posts we can rehash some of them here, albeit abbreviated. Do take care to Ignore the personal insult artists on here. Many of them have lost a debate to me, and are still bitter about it.

My hypothesis is such that; a majority of Americans live paycheck to paycheck. Are all of them a victim of circumstance? Probably not. Are they all a victim of their own bad decisions? Probably not again. So some messed-up their own lives, and some simply had bad luck. Difficult to tell which is which sometimes. But assuming the latter in favor of the former (as most folks on here do) is not correct. We only have some degree of free agency over our own lives. It's not unlimited. My greater point would be such that; living in America has gotten so expensive that in most situations it necessitates both parents working full time, or in the case of a single-parent household, one parent working much more than full time.

And in doing so has had deleterious effects on our society, and our children in particular. Negative effects which many on here only blame the individual for, rather than offer any meaningful solutions. Once again, they think if they scream "personal responsibility" really loudly that the problems will all just magically go away. Do you think my mortgage lender will accept that as payment?

I've lived in my fair share of sh!t-hole places myself. Roaches, rats, possums, burglars. Mine was also 6 hours away from home because that was the only full time job available after the great recession; because the republicans rat-f@cked the world economy with their financial deregulation.

I did the same thing with two friends, but there's only so many bedrooms in the house, and I wasn't there to watch over the place so you can only do that so much.

Yes, but that goes back to was it their fault, someone else's, or just bad luck. Hard to tell which is which with someone unless you know them, and the entirety of their circumstances. The default assumption from the far-right members on this forum is that everyone in a bad financial spot is there due to their own actions and "sucks to be you." Hardly a fact-based opinion.

I know both, those that over-spend, and those that save every dollar; only to be kneecapped by circumstances beyond their control.

If that's possible for you than good. But that math doesn't math for everyone in America. Just because you were able to make it work doesn't mean that all 342 million Americans can. Look man, somebody has to flip burgers and mop the floors. And the math of that doesn't work out if only one spouse is working. Like I said in another reply to a different member, the only couples with kids that are financially succeeding that I know of, are the ones with two incomes; aside from the ones where one spouse is a doctor. The capitalist machine demands all of their time, and then blames them for not having enough time for their kids. Pretty sick if you ask me.

Back to the; is it them, or something else argument...Now think of a family situation in which none of the grandparents are available, or even alive to help offset the costs of child care, or offer any support whatsoever...Perhaps you have more luck than many out there.

Careful now, I recall Hillary Clinton saying something like that in the 2016 election and Republicans got big mad over it. You don't want to make any enemies this early on in the thread...(sarcasm)

Same for me.

I also have plenty of what I call "f@ck-up friends." They're fun to be around, but I don't emulate their life choices. But bad choices alone don't account for the financial difficulties of tens of millions of Americans. Thinking so is just a far-right cop-out for letting big corporations screw over their workers, and then blame them for their own poor economic circumstances. Nobody who works 50 hours a week should be on food stamps.

Ahh, the first person on here acknowledging that luck plays a role, careful now, if you don't buy into this groups "meritocracy only" myth, they may try and digitally tar-and-feather you. Just because someone lost the lottery doesn't mean we should blame them for it.


It could be that as well. The old "keeping up with the Jone's" situation. But I was primarily referring to the capitalist machine that requires one to be on the financial treadmill your entire life, less ye want to become homeless and have to beg for scrapes from passerby's. Big business paying workers as little as possible for their labor, whilst claiming poverty, all the while making record profits. As our country continues the slow separation into two Americas. The haves, and the have nots; because the right-wingers endlessly simp for the corporations. A new Gilded Age if there ever was one.


In case you can't tell by now; it's the large corporations, the citizens united ruling, the Oligarchs who buy elections and convince all of these "temporarily embarrassed millionaires" on here that tax cuts for the rich and deficit spending will make our lives better (spoiler alert, it won't). But most of all...it's Shareholder Value Theory. Every single bad economic/fiscal decision this country has made for 50 years can be traced back to this god awful idea. That's what needs to go more than anything else. Sadly its a mindset, so short of electro-shock therapy on the majority of the country I don't see it going away anytime soon.

That's the thing, the negative trade-offs resulting from structural changes are minimal, at least for the median American anyways. Jeff Bezos may have to downsize his Yacht, and Zuck may have to sell a bunker, but if that means more Americans can buy boats, and second homes, then its worth it.

Your post seems to understand both the concept of context and nuance, something that many of the posts on this thread usually lack...Stay classy Tex.
The harder I work, the luckier I get. Look around. Most poor people have stacked up so many bad choices that they are uncountable. They weren’t just unlucky. We are all lucky to be in this country. If you can’t make it here, you’ve mad way too many bad choices.
 
Oh boy you have asked him to be specific, I'll be surprised, no shocked, if you get a specific answer that makes any sense.
He believes corporations are just supposed to be employment agencies and not make decent profits.
 
Back in the summer of 1976 my parent drove us from Tucson to Minnesota for summer vacation. On the way back we stopped in Longmont, Colorado to visit some friends of my parents.
We all took a day trip to Estes Park, but the rains were so bad we had to cut it short and return back to Longmont.
Not very long after we left the Thompson River canyon it flooded, killing 144, and wounding many more. 418 homes destroyed.
That night we sat watching the news at my parents friends home, realizing we had just narrowly avoided disaster and possibly death.
Yes and there are still people missing. We had another 1000 year flood in the same canyon in September 2013 after 24 inches of rain with 12 inches falling on the last day alone. It killed fewer people but was actually worse as far as damage. In 1976, people got in their vehicles and tried to outrun the wall of water that resulted from the Lake Estes damn break. In 2013, people climbed to safety, including two of my guides and four hunters. I rented a helicopter to rescue them because 17 miles of highway disappeared right down to the bedrock.
 
Thank you. I will accept this as a compliment. I think it may be my first on here.

Technically I think lower middle class. But it depends on the definition one uses.

I think of them more as a "side hustle," but I suppose the IRS classifies them as businesses..."Sole Proprietorship" as they say.

I think last I checked my wife and I recently broke the top 10% of households in America, by both Net Worth and by Income. We are now in the 24% marginal tax bracket for MFJ.

America is Flawed? Yes (every place has it's own flaws though). Causes poverty? No. The studies and associated math are mainly to show that many of the politicians on the right are trying to put the blame of folks living in poor financial situations on their own actions, and ONLY their own actions. When for millions of folks (possibly more), that simply isn't true. The situation is far more complex. There are plenty of folks that have fallen on hard times because of their own bad choices in life. But I can think of plenty of situations where that is not the case, and the blame can be laid at the feet of greedy C-suite executives working in conjunction with the republican politicians they paid off.

Yes, thank you for asking.

Example #1: My first full time job out of grad school in FL was working for a defense contractor. This was many years ago, fresh off the Great Recession caused by Republicans big ideas about financial deregulation. Anyways, the company was private and had recently been bought out by a private equity firm.


The target ROI for the business when it was private was 12-14%. Respectable. But not enough for its new masters. Their initial ROI expectation was 17-20%. They reviewed everybody in the office for profitability that year, and anyone that was still not "performing" was let go. To be clear, the employees fired were all working hard and actively making money for the company. It's just that they were not meeting their target rate of 17-20% for their projects, and were fired. But what about their mortgage payment? Tough sh!t. Their wife and kids? Tough sh!t. You see, even when you make money for large companies their is no loyalty. They don't care about you, into the unemployment line you go, no severance package. Good luck.

Luckily my project/contract was the main anchor for the office, and I was spared (if I told you what it was for you wouldn't believe me). They met their target that first year, and what did we all receive for it? A 1% raise, and a pizza party. Gee thanks. After only 1.5 years i decided it was time to leave. It didn't help that management there was dog-sh!t. And they raised their target ROI to 20-23% for the next year.

Around that time they also fired a guy because he was gay. New office-level management was very far-right, and not so happy about having him on the payroll. So you can see that working hard doesn't matter, making your company profit doesn't matter, it's never enough. There was more going on, but I suspect many of you have stopped reading by now.

Example #2: My cousin worked for Northwest Airlines for decades. Then it filed for bankruptcy and later merged with Delta. Good for shareholders and wall street in the long run. Bad for employees. Just like all of the other major airlines did. Shedding their pension obligations among other costs. He still has a pension but he had to work years longer for a smaller pension than he was promised his whole working career. And what was the end result? All the major airlines get to welch on their pension obligations, and only a few years later they have plenty of cash for dividend increases and stock buybacks.

So who pays? First, the employees get shafted, and then American's pick up the tab for what's left. The Pension Benefit Guaranty Corporation steps in, but from time to time it needs federal tax dollars to keep it afloat. Tens of billions of our tax dollars. This is on top of multiple bail-outs from congress for that industry. They privatize profits and socialize the risk.
Thank you for that response. I absolutely agree that there are a lot of dynamics that contribute to success or failure. I struggle with the idea that the state has a role in creating success. I do believe it has a role in protecting the vulnerable and enforcing rules. But, more than that scares me.

I am reading that we all agree a capitalist system of some form is better than the others. This debate seems to be about the extent of control exerted over activities within the capitalist environment. Do you agree?

I have always avoided large businesses - the farmer is not sharing his profits with his cattle. Same goes for any large group because the individual become secondary to the group. You can’t reason with a mob. Which applies to government too.

There is an enormous amount of wealth created by small businesses, businesses that are run like families, in communities they care about. You may be an example of that kind of entrepreneur. Do you need external controls to ensure you act ethically? To be charitable?Or are controls just for the other guy?

When you reflect on your success, why do you think you were able to get from your position in your example of corporate greed to the success you now have? I suspect a mix of positive role models, hard work, a desire to achieve and luck all played a roll. Do you think you got an advantage that may not be available to most? For example, you hold multiple degrees, and I assume accessing that education has opened doors for you. Did someone else pay for those? You don’t act like some of your friends because you know it will undermine your success. Why don’t they see that and act accordingly? Attitude plays a huge role (I accept that it’s not the only determinant)

The belief I hold is that the tools we need to succeed are available to everyone. My parents immigrated in the late 60s. We have family pictures, sitting on a couch but the table in the foreground was a cloth over a box something was delivered in. Sometime in the mid to late 1980s my father’s career took off. Why? Because he was recognized in the USA. His dark skin and funny name did not matter there. His ideas did. In Canada he was never accepted by the political elites and his career was curtailed until peers in the USA recognized him. Was it racism in Canada? Probably at some level. But it was more about the fact that the USA allow merit to rise, no matter your origin. Canada was, and is, much more of a small town bureaucracy and who you know really does matter. Strange how someone from outside the USA can find success but people born there can’t. Maybe it’s not the system after all?

That does not mean everyone will achieve the same level of success.

A humbling story - the parent of an employee of mine was a house keeper. I helped my employee learn a career and advance herself financially. All her work, I just provided the opportunity. At some point I had to hire a new cleaning service and she volunteered to do that work. To paraphrase my response, I insinuated her new career was superior to some who cleans for a living.

She exposed the hierarchy I perceived based of what someone does for a living. For her, hard work has no hierarchy. Success is what you have through your efforts. Wealth is desirable but not the measure of success. I was truly humbled and felt quite embarrassed.

Maybe it’s the left that is obsessed with wealth and not people who covet free enterprise? The obsession with manufacturing some arbitrary level of equality is dehumanizing. It’s based on an elitist view of society where the main motivation is jealousy.

My belief is that the greater involvement of the state to redistribute wealth, or mandate employment requirements,etc does not create the internal motivation to make life better for one’s family. The state gets into the business of trying to control success and that just distorts the market. You can’t legislate attitude. And, once the bureaucracy controls access to “success “, If you don’t play their game you are frozen out.

We would probably agree that the state has a role. But my experience, lived vicariously through my parents in India and Canada, makes me fear bureaucracy and its controlling hand.

The cure is not more government. The Inuit had their sled dogs slaughtered in the 1970s so they would stop being nomadic. Then famous assholes like Paul McCartney used their fame to influence governments to destroy their industry. To this day, the European, US and other governments impose laws that ensure poverty and ignore their submissions. The former Premier of Nunavut explained to me that Parliament does not listen when someone outside has an inflatable seal. I don’t think there are any other communities in North America that endure the pernicious effects of government regulation like the Inuit and First Nations. There is a lesson to learn here. It has been stated before - the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
 
I have some Nigerian lawyers and staff working for me know. They have a fantastic work ethic. Apparently Nigerian parents are notorious for pushing their children hard to succeed.
Hmmm interesting how that works, eh?
 
Thank you. I will accept this as a compliment. I think it may be my first on here.

Technically I think lower middle class. But it depends on the definition one uses.

I think of them more as a "side hustle," but I suppose the IRS classifies them as businesses..."Sole Proprietorship" as they say.

I think last I checked my wife and I recently broke the top 10% of households in America, by both Net Worth and by Income. We are now in the 24% marginal tax bracket for MFJ.

America is Flawed? Yes (every place has it's own flaws though). Causes poverty? No. The studies and associated math are mainly to show that many of the politicians on the right are trying to put the blame of folks living in poor financial situations on their own actions, and ONLY their own actions. When for millions of folks (possibly more), that simply isn't true. The situation is far more complex. There are plenty of folks that have fallen on hard times because of their own bad choices in life. But I can think of plenty of situations where that is not the case, and the blame can be laid at the feet of greedy C-suite executives working in conjunction with the republican politicians they paid off.

Yes, thank you for asking.

Example #1: My first full time job out of grad school in FL was working for a defense contractor. This was many years ago, fresh off the Great Recession caused by Republicans big ideas about financial deregulation. Anyways, the company was private and had recently been bought out by a private equity firm.


The target ROI for the business when it was private was 12-14%. Respectable. But not enough for its new masters. Their initial ROI expectation was 17-20%. They reviewed everybody in the office for profitability that year, and anyone that was still not "performing" was let go. To be clear, the employees fired were all working hard and actively making money for the company. It's just that they were not meeting their target rate of 17-20% for their projects, and were fired. But what about their mortgage payment? Tough sh!t. Their wife and kids? Tough sh!t. You see, even when you make money for large companies their is no loyalty. They don't care about you, into the unemployment line you go, no severance package. Good luck.

Luckily my project/contract was the main anchor for the office, and I was spared (if I told you what it was for you wouldn't believe me). They met their target that first year, and what did we all receive for it? A 1% raise, and a pizza party. Gee thanks. After only 1.5 years i decided it was time to leave. It didn't help that management there was dog-sh!t. And they raised their target ROI to 20-23% for the next year.

Around that time they also fired a guy because he was gay. New office-level management was very far-right, and not so happy about having him on the payroll. So you can see that working hard doesn't matter, making your company profit doesn't matter, it's never enough. There was more going on, but I suspect many of you have stopped reading by now.

Example #2: My cousin worked for Northwest Airlines for decades. Then it filed for bankruptcy and later merged with Delta. Good for shareholders and wall street in the long run. Bad for employees. Just like all of the other major airlines did. Shedding their pension obligations among other costs. He still has a pension but he had to work years longer for a smaller pension than he was promised his whole working career. And what was the end result? All the major airlines get to welch on their pension obligations, and only a few years later they have plenty of cash for dividend increases and stock buybacks.

So who pays? First, the employees get shafted, and then American's pick up the tab for what's left. The Pension Benefit Guaranty Corporation steps in, but from time to time it needs federal tax dollars to keep it afloat. Tens of billions of our tax dollars. This is on top of multiple bail-outs from congress for that industry. They privatize profits and socialize the risk.
Well, this certainly explains a lot. There are plenty of examples of companies who treat their employees quite well. You are biased based on your limited experience.
 
How is the "capitalist machine forcing both parents to work 50+ hours a week to survive" a true statement for a measurable portion of the population? At what point are you removing agency from the individual? Is this sarcasm and I'm missing it?

I lived in the same terrible apartment in the same terrible area for 6 years so I could save money to buy my first home. When I bought my first home, I rented rooms to three friends who were ecstatic that renting a room from me was hundreds and hundreds of dollars a month cheaper than renting a a studio apartment--the same friends who for years made fun of me for living in that apartment. Meanwhile, my mortgage was essentially covered by the three of them, so I was actually saving money while building equity. Those same friends, rather than saving the difference in rent money, just inflated their lifestyles. Case in point: after moving in, my one friend bought a Maserati and then would make jokes about the "almost voting age" beater that I was driving at the time.

The home we live in now I bought for < 33% of the amount I was approved of for a mortgage--because that was the cap my wife and I set for ourselves. The real estate agent didn't understand why we were "limiting ourselves" (her actual words). We (and by we I mean my wife) furnished our house from estate sales after she looked at the cost of buying new real wood (buying particle board should be a crime) furniture and about had a stroke. We spent less than $6,000 to furnish the entire home--and this home is not small. I have peers who spent as much on a sectional as we did on all of our furniture--and these are the same people who tell us how "lucky" we are that we "found" such great items and tell us how much they love the look of our home. As an added bonus realized years later, it's hard to get mad at a 2 year old for scratching furniture that costs less than dinner for two with drinks these days.

I guess it's that same "luck" that let me quit my job and start my own business. I didn't take a paycheck of any kind for 18+ months. We lived off savings and we lived frugally. I was showing up to business meetings with shirts from Goodwill and wearing the same suit for days straight. We managed though because we didn't maximize the mortgage and our cars were paid for. We cooked our own food--my wife is an amazing cook--and treated going out to eat as an indulgence instead of routine, behaviors we still hold.

My issue with your post is it's about my peer group--those of child-rearing/bearing age--and presents as victims of circumstance instead of a product of choices we made. My wife stays home. We made that decision and we made it before I started the business and at a much lower income and comfort level. A level which went even lower when she stopped working. We decided it was more important for our children that a parent is present than having extra money to "buy more stuff." We traded income and lifestyle for time spent with family. We have two children and a third arriving shortly. Our toddler did not see a screen until he was 2 and his screen time is limited exclusively to TV and not handhelds and only while my wife prepares dinner. It's 30 minutes a day, tops. That was a sacrifice in more ways than one. Entertaining a baby and toddler is exhausting. A screen is a crutch. It's a choice to use the crutch though. And, yes, we can "afford" to forgo the crutch in part because we are "buying" the time and energy to parent. But this isn't free. The cost is the opportunity cost of the lost second income and associated lifestyle. We helped my in-laws relocate nearby so we would have childcare support--again, exchanging money for time--and my parents chose to relocate near us as well after retiring.

"It takes a village" is a seemingly forgotten aphorism these days. Very few of my peers live near their parents, having left home to pursue careers. I made the same choice, but then facilitated bringing the village to me, despite the financial strain it caused it at the time. It also helps I'm married, never divorced, and we live together with our children--which I acknowledge is becoming less common as others pointed out. Quite literally among my peer group, no one has a spouse who stays home full-time, and many are on second (or third) marriages--if they even ever married in the first place. I wonder if those same peers having the "village" we do might have altered outcomes. And what choices did they make along the way that showed they had other priorities?

I got lucky in life, yes, but I also set conditions which enabled me to capitalize on that luck. I'm in my mid-30s and my friends joke I'm 3X going on 7X--perhaps more of a reflection of differing priorities than an indictment. We prioritize immediate gratification and screens embody this, all while we ignore the downsides and the costs associated. The phone does exactly what we designed it to do: keeps us entertained. But what's the cost? Realizing that money and time are convertible with an exchange rate set years before its realized is now seemingly the counter-culture. I guess I was lucky to realize this before I hit retirement and not after.

Back to the point though, what is this "capitalist machine" you're describing? Is this the social pressure placed on fully-grown adults with presumed autonomy? If so, who are you blaming and how are you going to fix it? Or is this just an expression of disgruntled sentiment because actual structural changes have real--and sometimes uncomfortable--tradeoffs?

Absolutely outstanding post.

Congratulations to you and your wife and thank you for sharing the inspiring life lesson with others.

We cannot change what happened in our lives yesterday, but the CHOICES we make today can change what happens in our lives tomorrow.
 
Thank you for that response. I absolutely agree that there are a lot of dynamics that contribute to success or failure. I struggle with the idea that the state has a role in creating success. I do believe it has a role in protecting the vulnerable and enforcing rules. But, more than that scares me.
The state can/has created success in many ways. Here are some infrastructure related examples (as I am primarily a Transportation Engineer); the interstate highway system, airports, seaports, dams, the electrification of rural America, the TVA, railroads in the 1800s. All of these have depended heavily on government involvement. Their creation has bred enormous successes for American corporations. How large and profitable would McDonalds be without an interstate or US route system? How efficiently could Walmart move goods without railroads and seaports? Would United Airlines exist if the gov wasn't subsidizing their infrastructure costs? How about the internet and the World Wide Web?
I am reading that we all agree a capitalist system of some form is better than the others. This debate seems to be about the extent of control exerted over activities within the capitalist environment. Do you agree?
Yes, as the old saying goes; Capitalism is the least bad choice among economic philosophies. Republicans are always championing de-regulation, but we've seen how bad things get with un-regulated capitalism. It can actually destroy and canabalize itself.
I have always avoided large businesses - the farmer is not sharing his profits with his cattle. Same goes for any large group because the individual become secondary to the group. You can’t reason with a mob. Which applies to government too.
I think a mob and a large bureaucracy are different. One is actively violent, while the other is just apathetic at times. As a current bureaucrat myself, I can tell you that no one I work with wakes up everyday thinking about how they can screw over people. We mostly gather data and write reports that are used to inform the executives.
There is an enormous amount of wealth created by small businesses, businesses that are run like families, in communities they care about. You may be an example of that kind of entrepreneur. Do you need external controls to ensure you act ethically? To be charitable?Or are controls just for the other guy?
Sometimes they do. I've worked for both large and small businesses. And I can tell you the smaller the better in terms of an employee's perspective. Smaller businesses can have a family setting, although not guaranteed. The controls are needed mostly for the larger businesses. The larger they get, the more controls they need. The more misdeeds they do. Walmart needs more controls that my local hardware store. Did you know that Walmart once got caught bribing officials in central/south America (among other crimes)? To the tune of $100 million dollars (not inflation adjusted)? The guy running my local hardware store doesn't have that kind of money for bribes. The playing field is not equal, that's what the regulations are for. Go look up HSBC drug scandal Mexico. My local credit union doesn't need regulations to control it in the same way HSBC does. Or like when the ACA forced health insurers to cover people with pre-existing conditions and not discriminate against them anymore.
When you reflect on your success, why do you think you were able to get from your position in your example of corporate greed to the success you now have?
I mean I literally left that corporate MIC job, and took another one 6 hours away from home to live in a rat/roach apartment. That's how bad it was. Perhaps that job has colored my beliefs in big business, or perhaps it just opened my eyes.
I suspect a mix of positive role models, hard work, a desire to achieve and luck all played a roll. Do you think you got an advantage that may not be available to most?
Yes, I had some advantages that are not available to everyone. And I acknowledge those. That's why I always quote the Oracle of Omaha's sage advice about the Ovarian lottery. Think about it, I...
1. Was born a straight white male in the USA in modern times,
2. Grew up in a loving, two-parent family, free from divorce,
3. That contained no absue,
4. That contained role models, both good and bad; hard working dedicated good roles models, and at least 2-3 extended family bad role models that showed me how I didn't want to end up (drugs and booze). I learned more from bad roles models than good ones on how to live a life. I like to drive my kids to the shitty parts of town and ask them which house they want us to move into. After they're done loosing their shit, I explain that this is when some (but not all) f@ck-ups live.
5. Had parents to guide me in life,
6. That showed me how to think critically using math, and not emotion.
7. showed me how to invest in real estate, in stocks, in assets (I own 3 rental homes)
8. Had a family that partially payed for several financial milestones in my life; partial college education, a partial house down payment, and finally a great aunt/uncle that passed leaving me part of their estate, which I used to pay off debts and invest in a nicer house with.

Most people don't have that.
For example, you hold multiple degrees, and I assume accessing that education has opened doors for you.
Yes. I knew early on that a general business degree wasn't going to be worth very much. UCF graduates 1000 of those every semester. Same with Psychology majors. So I chose a much more difficult but lucrative path, but one I was also interested in personally. And have a high aptitude for mathematically. I knew that if I worked hard earlier on that eventually I would land a good paying job with at least a decent boss, and I could work less then. And that strategy has worked well for me. I'm a believer in delayed gratification. Just don't wait too long, or your life passes you by.
Did someone else pay for those?
Yes, see above. My dad had student loans that caused him financial issues, and he didn't want his kids to have that same issue, since it held him back in life.
You don’t act like some of your friends because you know it will undermine your success. Why don’t they see that and act accordingly? Attitude plays a huge role (I accept that it’s not the only determinant)
Oh man, one of my side hustles is a book I'm writing entitled "The Life and Times of Pasco County"...If I ever get it finished. Nothing but one messed up Florida Man story after another, many include my friends bad decisions.
The belief I hold is that the tools we need to succeed are available to everyone. \
Sometimes that's true. I would say some tools that no longer exist that used to decades ago was affordable college, reasonably priced healthcare, and affordable starter homes. All contributed to the success of the baby boomer generation.
My parents immigrated in the late 60s. We have family pictures, sitting on a couch but the table in the foreground was a cloth over a box something was delivered in. Sometime in the mid to late 1980s my father’s career took off. Why? Because he was recognized in the USA. His dark skin and funny name did not matter there. His ideas did. In Canada he was never accepted by the political elites and his career was curtailed until peers in the USA recognized him. Was it racism in Canada? Probably at some level. But it was more about the fact that the USA allow merit to rise, no matter your origin. Canada was, and is, much more of a small town bureaucracy and who you know really does matter. Strange how someone from outside the USA can find success but people born there can’t. Maybe it’s not the system after all?
This could also be a survivorship bias as well? We would nee much more data to gauge it in a wider context.
That does not mean everyone will achieve the same level of success.
True, nor should we expect them to.
To paraphrase my response, I insinuated her new career was superior to some who cleans for a living. She exposed the hierarchy I perceived based of what someone does for a living. For her, hard work has no hierarchy. Success is what you have through your efforts. Wealth is desirable but not the measure of success. I was truly humbled and felt quite embarrassed.
I don't view the burger flipper as any less than me, nor the janitor. Folks on here throw a lot of shade at those professions. I simply ask; why don't they get to earn enough money to survive off of? Why are we intentionally paying large groups of people poverty wages?
Maybe it’s the left that is obsessed with wealth and not people who covet free enterprise? The obsession with manufacturing some arbitrary level of equality is dehumanizing. It’s based on an elitist view of society where the main motivation is jealousy.
All I know is when Jeff Bezos has a $1 Billion dollar yacht, and 48% of his NV workers are on welfare, and 29% of Walmart of hourly workers too, I know thats morally wrong. Nobody who works full time should be on food stamps. They can pay them more. I've been through the math with both Walmart and McDonalds on this very thread. It works out. It's not my job to subsidize Walmarts profits to enrich wealthy shareholders.
My belief is that the greater involvement of the state to mandate employment requirements, etc does not create the internal motivation to make life better for one’s family.
There are ways to design social programs that encourage personal growth without sacrificing needed benefits. The avg. SNAP benefit for NC is $332/month. You think folks would choose to live in poverty for $332/month? That's not enough. If a one parent household worked 45 hours a week, they could recovery that amount by being paid an extra $1.70 an hour by their employer. Thats not going to bankrupt Walmart...America's largest employer. In fact that's equal to about 17% of Walmart's profits if every hourly employee gets that raise. Let's say they need an economic incentive, right? Otherwise why not just take the gov money instead. So let's say Walmart sweetens the pot and uses 34% of profit to give them raises of 3.40. 1/2 makes up for the SNAP, and 1/2 they get to keep. Walmart could take it out of profits, or even pass it along to the consumers. But now not one of their employees are on SNAP welfare. If they can pass on Trump's tariffs costs, they can pass on some raises to the consumers, or a combo thereof.
The state gets into the business of trying to control success and that just distorts the market.
Some market distortions are good. They're not all bad.
The cure is not more government. The Inuit had their sled dogs slaughtered in the 1970s so they would stop being nomadic. Then famous assholes like Paul McCartney used their fame to influence governments to destroy their industry. To this day, the European, US and other governments impose laws that ensure poverty and ignore their submissions. The former Premier of Nunavut explained to me that Parliament does not listen when someone outside has an inflatable seal. I don’t think there are any other communities in North America that endure the pernicious effects of government regulation like the Inuit and First Nations. There is a lesson to learn here. It has been stated before - the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Sure, but regulations on industry and those on people are different things.
 
Have put on links to the spying modern cars do on you previously in this thread....but it's getting worse....the amount of information the sensors and cameras collect is mind blowing....from your sex life.. politics..weight...even if you pick your nose....another reason to find good older vehicles....

 
Thank you for that response. I absolutely agree that there are a lot of dynamics that contribute to success or failure. I struggle with the idea that the state has a role in creating success. I do believe it has a role in protecting the vulnerable and enforcing rules. But, more than that scares me.

I am reading that we all agree a capitalist system of some form is better than the others. This debate seems to be about the extent of control exerted over activities within the capitalist environment. Do you agree?

I have always avoided large businesses - the farmer is not sharing his profits with his cattle. Same goes for any large group because the individual become secondary to the group. You can’t reason with a mob. Which applies to government too.

There is an enormous amount of wealth created by small businesses, businesses that are run like families, in communities they care about. You may be an example of that kind of entrepreneur. Do you need external controls to ensure you act ethically? To be charitable?Or are controls just for the other guy?

When you reflect on your success, why do you think you were able to get from your position in your example of corporate greed to the success you now have? I suspect a mix of positive role models, hard work, a desire to achieve and luck all played a roll. Do you think you got an advantage that may not be available to most? For example, you hold multiple degrees, and I assume accessing that education has opened doors for you. Did someone else pay for those? You don’t act like some of your friends because you know it will undermine your success. Why don’t they see that and act accordingly? Attitude plays a huge role (I accept that it’s not the only determinant)

The belief I hold is that the tools we need to succeed are available to everyone. My parents immigrated in the late 60s. We have family pictures, sitting on a couch but the table in the foreground was a cloth over a box something was delivered in. Sometime in the mid to late 1980s my father’s career took off. Why? Because he was recognized in the USA. His dark skin and funny name did not matter there. His ideas did. In Canada he was never accepted by the political elites and his career was curtailed until peers in the USA recognized him. Was it racism in Canada? Probably at some level. But it was more about the fact that the USA allow merit to rise, no matter your origin. Canada was, and is, much more of a small town bureaucracy and who you know really does matter. Strange how someone from outside the USA can find success but people born there can’t. Maybe it’s not the system after all?

That does not mean everyone will achieve the same level of success.

A humbling story - the parent of an employee of mine was a house keeper. I helped my employee learn a career and advance herself financially. All her work, I just provided the opportunity. At some point I had to hire a new cleaning service and she volunteered to do that work. To paraphrase my response, I insinuated her new career was superior to some who cleans for a living.

She exposed the hierarchy I perceived based of what someone does for a living. For her, hard work has no hierarchy. Success is what you have through your efforts. Wealth is desirable but not the measure of success. I was truly humbled and felt quite embarrassed.

Maybe it’s the left that is obsessed with wealth and not people who covet free enterprise? The obsession with manufacturing some arbitrary level of equality is dehumanizing. It’s based on an elitist view of society where the main motivation is jealousy.

My belief is that the greater involvement of the state to redistribute wealth, or mandate employment requirements,etc does not create the internal motivation to make life better for one’s family. The state gets into the business of trying to control success and that just distorts the market. You can’t legislate attitude. And, once the bureaucracy controls access to “success “, If you don’t play their game you are frozen out.

We would probably agree that the state has a role. But my experience, lived vicariously through my parents in India and Canada, makes me fear bureaucracy and its controlling hand.

The cure is not more government. The Inuit had their sled dogs slaughtered in the 1970s so they would stop being nomadic. Then famous assholes like Paul McCartney used their fame to influence governments to destroy their industry. To this day, the European, US and other governments impose laws that ensure poverty and ignore their submissions. The former Premier of Nunavut explained to me that Parliament does not listen when someone outside has an inflatable seal. I don’t think there are any other communities in North America that endure the pernicious effects of government regulation like the Inuit and First Nations. There is a lesson to learn here. It has been stated before - the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
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Big Easy, we are here if you need a hug. No shame if the big bad business man abused you.

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For some of our discontented anti capitalist members here.

When feelings of envy, bitterness, resentment occur. Taking ::30 to appreciate what you have work magic. Contentment can’t come from money, things or a job. Or hating corporations. If you don’t have gratitude . Those things won’t provide it.

I’ll guarantee even in Nepal right now those rural people are content and feel gratitude. It’s the way they’re wired. They work very hard for very little and are some of the happiest people I have interacted with on the planet.


 
I have some Nigerian lawyers and staff working for me know. They have a fantastic work ethic. Apparently Nigerian parents are notorious for pushing their children hard to succeed.
I lived and worked in Lagos for 6 years. Nigeria is a hyper competitive environment, with a lot of people hustling everyday to get a little piece of limited resources. Extremely competitive to get into good schools. Getting a good job at a good company is like winning the lottery.
 
Keep telling myself not to watch videos on uk...but occasionally I slip up....what a fkn mess


I’ve listened to the Joe Rogan podcast with Rupert Lowe. He seemed to have his head screwed on right, although I mainly only know him from the UK rape gang report. What do you think his chances are over the next 10 years to right the ship?
 
For some of our discontented anti capitalist members here.

When feelings of envy, bitterness, resentment occur. Taking ::30 to appreciate what you have work magic. Contentment can’t come from money, things or a job. Or hating corporations. If you don’t have gratitude . Those things won’t provide it.

I’ll guarantee even in Nepal right now those rural people are content and feel gratitude. It’s the way they’re wired. They work very hard for very little and are some of the happiest people I have interacted with on the planet.



Whoever loves wealth will never have enough(wise words for one of the richest persons on earth). Being content is really to acknowledge and feel pleased what one have is just fine.

in regards to the people of Nepal who are hindus and buddist. Their outlook versus ours here in the west are somewhat different. Here we are consumers which are encourage to buy big, buy volume, buy more etc. If in doubt just take the last financial crisis with subprime house loans. People couldn`t get it big enough because it had an importance to them.. No they couldn`t stretch their dollar enough. With that mindset(speaking of) many sorrows floowed later. Things were particular bad in the US in regards to this. If we narrow down to our daily life we see the suppliers of groceries etc wants us to buy big valuepacks or bulk even though the need may not be there. When I stop to buy gas I used to go into the store to buy a roll of Certs. Today I have to buy a 4-package. So I don`t buy it anymore. A little Mars bar for $.50 was fine too once but now I have to buy a double package fullsize bars. I could go on and on.
 
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