I will share this, and it was shared with me by my preacher. I went to one of his Bible studies series on money and happiness. There are two things that stuck out to me.
The first being, what if you could be in the top 1%, how great would that be, would you be happy. He then said if you have 45k a year you are in the top 1% globally. The point being our idea of wealth and being wealthy is largely how we perceive it. Only we can determine our happiness.
The other point was he said he saw the future, and that he knew exactly how much money we wanted to make, he told everyone to write down a number and that he would tell them what that number was. After everyone wrote down a number he goes, that number you wrote down is more than you are making today. This was the basic issue, that people no matter how successful or unsuccessful always felt they needed more.
I have never looked at anyone with jealousy that had more than me, I know very successful people in my circle that are doing better than me, but I also know they dont get to walk out of meeting to go coach Tball with their kid, they arent there every night for dinner, and have made sacrifices that I don't envy to be in that position. We can all look at anything on paper say must be nice, but we dont know what they gave up.
I was on the partner pipeline for a Big 4 company and talking with another new partner, they were in debt from having to buy in and hadn't seen their kid in 2 weeks (they werent traveling for work, just spending that much time in the office). I left about a month later, terrible financial decision, but the amount of hugs I get everyday is priceless.
I will also say, I am thankful for the members in this site who are more successful than me, they have inspired me to try challenging hunts, given me priceless advice, and have opened hunting doors for me I would have never considered.
The world would be a better place if instead of seeing something on social media and saying I want that or that must be nice, they would say what could I learn from that person.