I have seen the impact on friends and family when an individual has elected MAID. I am not entering the fray other than to say that I am absolutely opposed to it.
Its Canada.. so not really my business..
but.. I will say, my own morals, ethics, and faith would make me absolutely opposed to it here in the US..
add in the inate corruption of man (in this case certain "medical professionals" and politicians) and I see it as a complete shit show administratively as well..
I had a very close friend commit suicide about 10 years ago.. he developed cancer 20 years ago.. he beat it.. but the doctors told him that it would absolutely come back (this was some really aggressive and somewhat rare form of testicular cancer) and that when it did, it would not be survivable.. They told him to plan on 3-5 years before it came back... he was blessed by being given 10..
He told me when he initially beat cancer that when it came back that his plan would be to take himself out.. he wanted to dictate the terms and conditions of his departure from this life and not allow the cancer to "win".. he was also a very strong, mentally sharp, etc guy.. a former Force Reconnaissance Marine that had done exceedingly well in business after leaving the military.. he wanted his daughter and wife to remember him that way, and not see a broken down, sick, weak, etc person that cancer was going to make him before it killed him..
He maintained this position for the entire decade before the cancer came back.. never wavering.. despite several of his friends (myself included) telling him that he needed to talk to his daughter and his wife about this and find out what their thoughts were.. they were the critical people he would be leaving behind.. He refused..
When the cancer came back, he did exactly what he said he would do.. he made his rounds, went and saw all of his close friends, spent time with them, spent time with his wife, etc.. but.. didnt tell anyone what was actually going on... he and I went and had lunch at a burger joint, shared a bunch of laughs, reminised (we had deployed to both Iraq and Afghanistan together in a senior leader contractor role several times in the past).. and then went our separate ways.. it was just another lunch in my mind (we did this about once every six months to a year, and had been doing it for years)...
2 days later he was gone..
The anguish his daughter felt, and still deals with today is huge.. the anguish another one of his close friends feels even today has been incredibly impactful in the most negative ways.. etc..etc..
While I completely understand his mindset and his reasoning (we had talked about this in depth several times over the years).. I also completely disagree with it.. He felt like he was being "strong"... I actually feel the exact opposite.. I see it as weakness and selfishness.. a refusal to deal with a tough circumstance, that left the people that loved him the most, heartbroken, questioning their value, questioning their worth, etc..
Again, this was a very close friend.. A guy I had known for almost 20 years.. that I had worked closely with for 3 years (we had offices next door to each other).. that I had deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan with a dozen times or more.. that I shared countless meals with.. our families hung out together.. etc.. I loved him like a brother..
but.. if Im honest with myself.. Im still pissed at him.. its been difficult for me to find forgiveness (although I think I finally got there a few years ago)..