Ya know saying someone is a dick without knowing them really doesn't further any discussion. Yes Trump shows many signs of diskishness in public. It is interesting that the consensus of many that have had that same opinion then actually met the guy on a personal level have quite the opposite view; Bill Maher is a good example. Trump displays many distasteful traits publicly, and he may in fact be a dick, but all I've heard is that on a personal level he's actually pleasant. That's hearsay of course and largely depends on a persons definition of being a dick.
I spent 3 years of my life running in circles that had me in the presence of a POTUS and most of the major cabinet members at that time regularly. I’ve got a pretty good handle on politics at the highest level and how public vs private personas can differ..
I also know a variety of people that have spent time on every POTUS protection detail from Clinton forward. There’s little doubt in my mind about who the ones that are/were decent people vs the ones that are genuine shit bags of humans.
Dickish behavior whether genuine or put on for show is an indicator of being a dick. On more than one occasion Trump has been caught with a hot mic exhibiting dickish behavior, so all of it clearly isn’t just for show.
That said if what you’re getting at is that he treats his staff well, by all accounts that’s very likely true. I’ve heard from Marines at VMX-1 and USAF personnel at the 89th (both of those organizations directly service the White House) thst Trump treats military line personnel exceptionally well. I’ve also been told by USSS personnel that he has been highly respectful and kind to his assigned team. Melania is supposed to be an absolute angel to be around as well.
None of that however discounts being a dick to others, often for no apparent reason than he can be.
His reputation as a business leader spans more than 50 years.. his treatment of low level and mid level staff exceptionally well is well documented… him being an absolute ass with senior leaders both internal and external to his firm is also well documented…
Don’t read any of this wrong… at the most senior levels being a dick often is necessary… I run a mid market firm that works directly with the federal government… I’m pretty sure most of the senior leaders that work for me believe I can be an outrageously big dick at times… while at other times they likely think I’m a good guy…
Steve Jobs was known for a dynamic personality and was loved by many…
It’s also well documented that he was at the same time a huge dick to others… Kevin O’Leary in particular has gone on the record stating that jobs was a brilliant leader and brilliant innovator and beloved by staff…but a terrible monster and horrible human…
Both can and often are found in the same person..