JG26Irish - I really enjoyed the detail, data, and general information in your OP. I have and use all the cartridges in this discussion (308,7-08, 7x57, 270, 30-06); I hand-load for all of them as I find this fulfilling and I enjoy tinkering with loads.
Please bear with me as I go through a bit of my philosophy and then my "thoughts" might make better sense.
My Philosophy:
Personally, I always look at rifles (regardless of what they are) as, quite simply, a launching platform; I look at the cartridge (regardless of what it is) as the solid-fuel rocket propelling my projectile; my projectile is the ONLY thing that will come into contact with my target (unless I'm unlucky enough to get ran over by my target

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I want my projectile to have adequate terminal performance to humanely dispatch whatever critter I'm shooting. For me this is penetration and "mushrooming" or increased frontal diameter ,might be a better term for some bullets.
Velocity at "impact" has a lot to do with this;
velocity at the muzzle doesn't matter, other than the fact that it has an effect on the impact velocity. Impact velocity is the "velocity" that matters to the projectile: I can have 2850 fps at the muzzle, but my if my target is at 400 and my impact velocity is 1950 fps - I need a bullet that provides terminal performance at 1950 fps. (For context - these are actual numbers for one of my 308s using Sierra 150gr SBT GameKing bullets.) Some bullets, especially mono bullets need more impact velocity for their best performance.
Some folks use ft-lbs as the indicator of performance/killing power, but the more substantial (bigger/bulkier/denser) the target, the more one needs penetration. I believe a better indicator for this is momentum. Ft-lbs of energy relies heavily on squaring velocity and one can get a lot of ft-lbs of energy with a light, very fast projectile, but the penetration won't be there because there is a lack of momentum.
For me, although I often shoot "ring my steel" or punch holes in paper at 400, 500, or 600 yds...I HARDLY ever shoot animals over 300-325 and 90% of the time they are 200 and closer. That's just my preference. If I can't close the distance to 300ish, I just chalk it up as a win for the animal
I certainly want to use "Enough Gun", but at the same time, I have never felt the need to use way more gun than I need. There is no doubt 35 Whelen, 338WM, or 300WM launching a 180 or 200+ gr bullet at max velocity is has substantially more momentum and energy than a 308 or 30-06 launching a 165 gr at 2800 fps. However, based on my life of hunting experience, I've never needed the extra momentum, energy, and recoil, to take the game I've shot at the distances I shoot. I base this on quite a few elk, deer, hogs, Kudu, Wildebeest, Zebra, etc. One will note that I didn't list Eland, American Bison, big bears, etc. For these, I believe I'd like that extra "horsepower" LOL.
Lastly, I like carrying and handling lighter, shorter-barreled rifles topped with an ultra-light suppressor. 20" barrels are my preference, but my favorite 308 has an 18.75" tube.
Performance:
Since I hand-load, I can usually get better performance than factory ammo: I can ladder test for [pressure, use proper bullets to match my needs, tweak and re-tweak for accuracy, and finally settle on the best loading for a particular rifle.
I love Tikka rifles because for me they are not only very accurate right out of the box, I find that they are the perfect candidates for modifications. They generally have a long throat and I can seat bullets quite long for the cartridge. Since they are all "standard (or long...whichever you prefer) actions" I can get a long action bolt stop and a long action magazine and then seat bullets out WAY further than I can on true "short actions" with short action magazines. Seating longer gives me more powder capacity but not necessarily more pressure and this allows me to push heavier bullets at higher velocities than I can in true "short actions".
Subsequently, my suppresses, 18.75” Tikka 308, pushes my 165gr loads at 2730 fps. My suppressed, 20”, Tikka 7-08, pushes my 160 gr loads at 2715 fps. I can get more velocity, but this is the 3/4” grp node for these rifles.
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