Johnny, please don't misconstrue what I'm about to ask. Please define the word "Festive" for me. Be careful, because I think you and your wife can be as festive as you want to be. I can recall two Christmas back in the early 70s when I was elated to have I.V. s removed and allowed to leave the hospital for 8 hours so I could come home and spend time with my family. Just having my children sit on my lap brought a tear to my eye but joy to my heart. I'm betting that just holding her hand and making plans for the future will be as festive as anything you've ever done. I can also recall part of a Dale Carnegie course that said when life deals you lemons, you need to make lemonade. There is more truth than fiction in that statement when you think about it.
